If you’re a “top,” you’re seen as the masculine one, and if you’re the “bottom,” you’re seen as the more feminine one.In the gay male community, usually, you’re either considered to be a “top,” the penetrator, or a “bottom,” the penetrated, or you’re versatile (can go either way).You’re not having real sex if you don’t have an orgasm.Penetration is the “gold standard” of sex.Thus, Bill Clinton famously said, “I did not have sex with that woman” (whether he actually believed that or was simply lying). When it comes to sex, whether you’re gay, bi, or straight, we’ve all been a little brainwashed into believing that there is this thing called “normal.” Here are just a few of the narrow preconceptions that fall into the “normal sex” category: Source: Imply By Design Creator Brett Rogers